Flirt Your Way Into Getting What You Want Without Saying a Word – Flirting 101

In this Hub I will discuss some serious tips and strategies that will allow you to flirt your way into getting what you want from the opposite sex. Okay, so what does that mean? Well each person wants something different so the answer will differ for everyone.

But for many single men, trying to attract a sexy woman is high on their list of “to-dos”. Well, there are a few things that you can do to help your cause by using your own body language while understanding the signals given off by others.

You see, we are creatures of habit but more important is the fact that over 60 percent of communication is received through nonverbal signals from body language. When you meet someone for the first time, just from your body language given off they have already sized you up and the infamous “first impression” has already been formed.

We very complex creatures and the brain is capable of discerning the meaning of an eyebrow raised at a particular time. Subconsciously, you will know if you are being flirted with and you will feel that temporary feeling of “euphoria”.

3 Strategies You Can Start Doing Tomorrow to Get What You Really Want

Change Your Body Language – As I mentioned, body language is a major factor in communication and first impressions. If you are in the dumps, your body language will almost certainly reflect it and a bad image will be portrayed to others. I will take this a bit further. If you change your body language, the mind will follow. Have you ever heard the saying, “fake it until you make it”. The premise of this saying is that if you trick you mind into a particular behavior, it will eventually start to feel this way.

When you continually feel this way, you will start to become that way. Fake that you are that confident person long enough and people will start to treat you as such. This will start the snowball effect of the world opening up to you and will start to receive things that use to pass you by. One of these “things” just might be the love of your life. Try it! You won’t be disappointed.

Look Approachable – No one likes rejection and even the most confident person will usually look for their cue to approach you. So in knowing this, you have to make yourself look approachable and inviting. One of the easiest ways to do this is by looking very comfortable and easy going. You know the person I’m talking about, the one that you could walk up to them and ask them anything. You also know the other person you would do anything to avoid. Don’t be that person!

One cue that is will not be misinterpreted is direct eye contact and a smile. If nothing else, this action alone can make someone’s day. Just this week I smiled at the young lady in the McDonald’s drive through and she responded by saying, “that smile has made my morning and was better than a cup of coffee”.

A simple smile was all it took.

Say Something – Okay, so maybe there is a time when you really should say something. Meeting people that like you is still a crap shoot even with ammunition on your side, so one of the most important things is to simply say something. Not sure what to say? Start with simple things just to get the conversation started. If you are still not sure, you can start with the 5 basic questions, who, what, when, where and why that pertain to your situation. If the person is interested in continuing the conversation, they will give off the cues to let you know. So look out for that big smile and that body lean and you will know that you are well on your way.

These are just a few strategies to get your started in flirting your way into getting just what you want in life. Whatever that may be!

Good Luck!